Many times, it’s been there all along. Many people have given us the same advice. Endless TedTalks have revealed deep, resonating truths. But, only when we are ready to hear it, does it touch our ears. And if you have found this true, as I have, we only hear very specific people.
Just as easily that you believed that, you can believe that it does not have to be that way. Our mind creates whatever reality we would like to believe, whatever reality validated what we believe about ourselves. Whether it is to continue validating that we are incompetent, but surrounding ourselves with bullies who don’t care about our growth or improvement. Or whether it is to surround ourselves with true blue friends and family, in order to validate how truly loved we are.